fiancee backsoff from wedding yet proceeds to take our honeymoon cruise w/friend?
May 20, 2009 by Cruise Tips
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Iv’e been in two other similar situations with this man before,He say he loves me and wants to make another wedding date do I even dare? What keeps him from commiting to me ?
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Iv’e been in two other similar situations with this man before,He say he loves me and wants to make another wedding date do I even dare? What keeps him from commiting to me ?
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Cruises Feedback: if you have been here before with this guy, you need to be frank and ask him what his problem is. If he cant give you an answer, or an answer thats not good enough, then you are better off without him. You may love him and want to be with him, but do you really want to be with someone who constantly lets you down and wont commit?
Cruises Feedback: You must really be a slow learner.
Cruises Feedback: dont even talk to him! what a jerk! how do you know he didn’t do it w/ your friend?!! if he backed off and still doesn’t commit to you, don’t see him anymore.
Cruises Feedback: The fact that he’s not ready to get married is what keeps him from committing. I hope you had enough sense to not shack up. This happens more often than not with shack up jobs.
Cruises Feedback: 1. He’s an ass.
2. You need to let go of him.
3 He’s an ass.
Why would you let him keep walking all over you? He’s not going to commit as long as he knows you’ll never leave his sorry ass. Just walk away. As hard as it is, he doesn’t deserve you. There are a million other men out there who would treat you better than that.
Cruises Feedback: Wait a minute, he’s done this to you 3 times? This reminds me of the old saying fool me once shame on you fool me twice shame on me….I have no idea what 3 times would be.
Obviously he is not going to change and you are not going to change him, dump him and move on or you can continue to be a doormat!
Cruises Feedback: why do you like to punish yourself, kick his butt to the curb and find someone who will respect and honor you and not lie. you deserve to be happy and as long as he is in the picture i dont see this for you .
Cruises Feedback: There is clearly something wrong and very selfish about him. Do you really want to marry this loser? Move on for good and find someone who wants to marry you for who you are and take the honeymoon with you.
Cruises Feedback: If you have any respect for yourself you need to really look at this situation and decide if it is truly worth it. Even if you don’t want to, it maybe time to move on with your life. Sometimes these are signs given to us before we make really big mistakes. It sounds like he is just pulling you along to give him company. He doesn’t want to be alone and he will keep doing this to you until you don’t let him any more.
Cruises Feedback: Don’t know but as long as you keep taking him back, he would have to change his ways.
The question is why do you keep settling for less.
Cruises Feedback: GET RID OF HIM!!! NOW!!! There is no way you can marry this man. Yes, I know deep down you love him but you can not continue to let him make a fool out of you and that is what he is doing. Leave him, he will know what he is missing in the end when another man comes, sweeps you off your feet and treat you like the queen you are.
Cruises Feedback: fool me once shame on you, fool me twice shame on me.
Cruises Feedback: I’m thinking it’s three strikes and yer out. You deserve better.
Cruises Feedback: Girl that is really messed up! I feel for you though! confront him. If he says he loves you then ask him why is he afraid to commit! So this is the 3rd time? Give him the ultimatum… tell him its now or never. If he truly loves you then he wouldn’t have a problem committing unless he has some psychological damage from a traumatic exspearance.
Cruises Feedback: I would say dump his lousy butt and find a great man who will want to marry you someday. You deserve better then this man and how he treats you. Hope he enjoyed his vacation because it cost him a high price: you. Get some time with your girlfriends and be glad that you saw the light before you got married. Good luck.
Oh, I forgot don’t even make another wedding date! He skipped on the last three, so forget him. You have better things to do then waste time with this loser. He does not deserve a great lady like you.
Cruises Feedback: DUMP HIM! Sorry to say if he’s backed out 2 times now.. he’s not going to make a commitment of marriage to you. You deserve much better then to be put through the emotional ringer like this. I wish you much luck!
Cruises Feedback: ditch the jerk
Cruises Feedback: Let me guess…you paid for that cruise didn’t you?
The saying goes “fool me once shame on you, fool me twice shame on me.”
Cruises Feedback: Time to move on, girl…
Cruises Feedback: Oh my…that is the most ridiculous thing I have ever heard! DUMP HIM!!!!